Great! kav tsij tuaj qhia kuv yuav kawm thiab... kuv kawm tau me ntsis thaum kuv mus rau shanghai tab sis kuv tsis nco qab tas lawm... thanks in advance!

Pog…

agree koj cov lus…

Individually ntawm koj thiab kuv rau peb niam peb txiv… koj thiab kuv yuav tau txo peb tus kheej los spend sometimes nrog lawd… surely… lub sij hawm nyob miskas yeej yog sij hawm muaj nqis heev yog tias koj tuad hauj lwm theem siab… tab sis yog peb manage peb lub time accordingly los spend times nrog lawd kom lawd muaj txoj kev cia siab thiab pom tej yam ua rau lawd zoo siab… qhov nod kuj yog ib qhov yuav pab tau rau lawd lub siab nyob luag ntxhi thiab… kuv xav tias there is no concrete way to cure such mental illness for our elders because their belief versus our belief… but as a child to them, we could do our best to honor them as parent for special occasion… txog thaum nkawd ho txiav txim siab sib tso… kawg nkaus… yus cov me nyuam s/d yuav tsum support nkawd ob leeg xwb… tej zaum qhov nkawd sib tso sib nrauj ntawd kuj yog ib qhov choice yuav pab rau nkawd dim nkawd txoj kev nyuaj siab mus rau freedom thiab… each of us has our own way enjoy life… peb Hmoob yeej ib txwm sib yoog… txawm kuv tsis nyiam los tsuav koj nyiam ces kuv yeej yoog koj… tej tug sib yoog sib yoog ces thaum kawg muaj mental issues thiab vim tsis muaj leej twg mus socialize kom tej kev yus ua rau lwm tus ntawd raug qhuas thiab recognize both ways from inside…

POG... txhua tsav yam yog depend rau lub society peb nyob... peb tuaj nyob rau lub society liam ces s/d kawg liam... tej zaum ntawm peb hmoob yuav yog liam... tab sis ntawm luag lwm haiv neeg yog zoo... just remember... we live in an economic society... the more problems.. the more job created for the people... every where surrounding you just business $$$$$ nothing more and nothing less....




PogLaus wrote:
NTAU ZAUS PEB THAM TXOG COV HLUAS THIAB COV NRAB NEEJ XWB.......YOG LI NO ZAUM NO THOV PEB THAM TXOG NTAWM COV UAS LAUS LAUS OVER 55+ LAWM LOS TSEEM YUAV SIB TSO..HAIS LUS TSIS SIB HAUM LI......VIM LI CAS NO? NEJ COV UAS TUB THOV UA NTEJ SEB......

Hi pog... nyob li cas lawm xwb os?

Tau ib tug poj niam kom zoo raws li yus lub siab xav xwb ces zoo lawm... hmmm... too broad right? sure... vim peb ib leeg yeej nyiam peb ib hom ces nws yeej yuav tsum txawd... thiab broad... puas yog?

In general... kom ob leeg compatible... ces zoo tshaj txhua yam lawm...

koj xav li cas xwb txog kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab sib cais ntawm HMONG NEW YEAR in Fresno? give us more insight detail if you know... thx...

Koj yug los ua Hmoob... koj puas tsim nyog los tawm suab thiab khiav pem toj nram hav los pab kho kom Hmoob rab xib xub ntawd ncaj zog thiab?...los yog koj ntshai-x tsam muaj kev tu siab thiab tsam luag ho khwv hriav kev tua koj pov tseg yog koj rau tes?...

1. Hmong 18 xeem... tsis yog officially... Each clan representative in the Hmong 18 xeem organization is not a truely choosing from the clan... so in this case he/she is representing him/her self not the whole clan. How would you fix this?

2. Hmong lub siab phem... ib qhov ob qhov los tso rau koj cov kwv tij ua... kuv cov kwv tij ua... yeej tsis pub leej twg ua... example li tej cov koom haum hmoob thiab tej cov koom tsheej loj... tus president los yog nws xeem...tus project director los yog nws xeem... How would you fix this?

3. Ruam tsab ntse - example... ua tsis tau los khav-x mus ua... qhov result twb tsis txaus pom ua tau ib qhov zoo li... twb tsis txawj... los khav-x tias yus txawj... ces mus ua txij tog txij phes thaum kawg... muaj teeb meem tuaj... ces puas tag hro tsoom hmoob...

4. Ib tug ua puas tag hro sawv daws... Majority of Hmong.. they can not see the big picture that HMONG is HMONG... they see HMONG as hmong (All cap. and small cap)... this means Hmong view only his/her cousin are HMONG... other HMONG just hmong... koj khav...kuv khav... ib leeg tsis pro-active rau ib leeg... thaum ib leeg ua puas tsuaj kiag ib qhov... luag lwm haiv neeg tsis paub txog tias HMOOB mean close cousin and relative... they see HMONG as a minority group... koj yuav ua li cas thiaj daws tau tej teeb meem no?...

Add your list so we could discuss....

Phooj ywg JAY... koj hais tsis yuam kev ib qhov kiag... 3 yam koj hais ko yog tej kev Hmoob niaj hnub coj...niaj hnub ua... lub neej rov qab qees... tsis yog ua lub neej mus tom ntej...

Example---> cov paub tab tsis xav los get involve... vim cov ruam tsab ntse yuav hais tias cov paub tab yuav los ntxias lawd... thaum cov paub tab nyob ces cia cov ruam tsab ntse los do ces thaum kawg ib sij hnov thiab pom ib zaj xov xwm txawd-x ua rau lwm haiv neeg labeled Hmoob yog ib haiv neeg very low...

agree with u 100%....

Bawg tubliab...

Hais txog ntawm kev sib sau los ua neej... kuv agree rau kis tias NYOB NTAWM NKAWD OB TUG ME NYUAM xwb... yog nkawd sib hlub tiag ces cov ua niam ua txiv yuav tsum cia li los support xwb... there is no need to put a price "nqe mis nqe hno" rau tus ntxhais... thiab yuam qig kom tog tub yuav tsum them xwb-x... tej kev zoo li no yog ib qhov MENTALITY cog tseg tsis balance rau peb haiv neeg Hmoob lawm... hais txog tej khoom phij cua... tib yam li koj tau hais los... feem coob tsis need lawm tsuas yog ua dej siab dej ntsws xwb... yog tau tus txiv zoo... kev yuav sib pab rau lub neej pem suab tseem yuav sib pab tshaj ntawd mus... addition... WE NEED A BALANCE WITH RESPONSIBILITY rau ob tug sib sau ua lub neej kom txhob cog tau tej yam hais tias KUV TWB TSHWM NYIAJ YUAV KOJ LOS... peb hmoob yeej ib txwm hais lo lus KUV YUAV POJ NIAM... KUV YUAV TXIV... TSIM NYOG PEB YUAV TSUM HLOOD TIAS... KUV TWB MUS POJ NIAM... OR KUV TWB MUAJ TXIV...



Tubliab wrote:
Npawg Brian koj hais yog, tubliab tsim nyob txhawb koj lub niam tswv yim. tiam sis nqe kawg txog ntawm nqe tsoob kos. Tubliab tus kheej kuj tsis blame leej twg, niam txiv, poj koob yawm txwv, tradition, los yog kev zoo siab dab tsi li.

Tubliab ntseeg tias sau nqe tshoob. peb yuav tau coj los explain kom meej rau cov tub ntxhais hluas kom nkag siab txog lub txhooj tsoob.

1. nqe tshoob tsis yog nqe tob hau. Nws yog qhov nqe mis nqe hno. Txawm teb chaws no tsis noj niam mis los noj niam txiv dag zog loj hlob. YOg yus yog ib leej tub zoo, yus nyiam raug lawv tus ntxhais 5 phav, 7 phav, or 10 phav. tsis muaj teeb meem. consider a gifts. txhob muab xam tias yuav tus ntxhais li nqe tob hau. Yog peb xav txog nqe tob hau.. 100k, 300k, rau 1million. twb yuav tsis tau ib tug neeg lub nqe tob hau. nco ntsoov li ntawv cov phooj ywg.

2. Kuv txaus siab them ces them zoo siab hlo. txhob mus cam hais lus cov nyom. Zoo li kev yuav tsheb koj/kuv twb cash tau cov tsheb 10k, 15k, thiab 20k cash kiag. lub tsheb tsuas pab yus taug kev thiab siv li ntawm 10 tawm xyoo xwb ces hloov dua. Yus tus pojniam kav yus ib tiam. nws tseem los khwv los tu pab yus lub neej, yug me tub menyuam txhawb yus zog. Ntawv yog koj/kuv/peb txoj kev zoo siab.

3. nqe tshoob, nyiaj phij cuam. Raws li tubliab pom feem ntau. cov ntxhais tiam no muaj dej num ua, muaj tsheb, muaj nyiaj txog tsheej 10 tawm phav, tej tug tseem muaj 20k. plug lub tsheb li ntawm 15-20k. niam txiv phij cuam tag nrho. Cov neej tsa, muaj phauj dab laug, nus, nrog viv ncaus phij cuam yam tsawg tsawg raws li tubliab pom tsis tsawg tshaj li ntawm 4,000. or more.

YOg li tus txiv them 5k, 7k es ua cas peb cov txiv tsev, txiv neej ho khib. Khib for no reason. Muaj qee leej, twb yog tus ntxhais siv nws li nyiaj muab rau tus tub rov tuaj ua tshoob nrog nws. los tus tub tseem khib qees thiab.. kuv xav mas cov txiv neej siab me dhau lawm.

muab piv rau lwm haiv neeg tsis sau nqe tshoob tiag, tab sis yuav ris tsho, yuav rings, ua lub wedding party txog tsheej 40-50 phav. luag zoo siab hlo. tus tub, tus txiv yuav ib lub ring txog 7k los yeej zoo siab hlo. Ntawv thiaj yog txoj kev hlub. Txoj kev hlub ntawm yus thiab yus tus wife tsis yog nyiaj txiag. nyiaj txiag tsuas yog lub txeej txeem ntawm yus pab pawg neeg kev coj noj coj ua.

Lwm hais neeg tau hais ib lo lus tias: Ua ib haiv neeg tswm sim los nyob ntiaj teb no, yog tsis muaj kev cai dab qhuas, thiab ib txoj kev ntseeg ces haiv neeg ntawv yog ib haiv neeg poob qis tshaj. Yog li txhob muab peb hmoob txoj kev ntseeg, mus piv rau lwm haiv neeg, lwm pab pawg neeg. vim peb yog peb, peb yog hmoob. peb tsis tau yog lwm haiv neeg. Yog peb yuav hloov caum lwm haiv neeg ces peb txhob rov hu peb ue hmoob lawm.

Nov yog tubliab txoj kev xav.

brian wrote:
Kuv xav tias tej kev sib tua no yog burden los ntawm peb Hmoob tej kev coj rau sab kev sib sau los ua neej... kuv tseeg tau tias... everything has to be in logical orders... raws li nram no:
1. Yug los rau lub ntiaj teb no
2. Lub loj hlob... zuj zus...
a. raug teeb meem ntau yam...
b. etc...
3. Laus zuj zus
4. Txoj sia tu

Nej s/d sim seb peb Hmoob ib seem kev coj nyob rau lub teb chaws miskas no seb puas muaj logical orders li hais no? Ntau zaug kuv pom tias tej kev Hmoob ib txwm ua thaum ub... yeej siv tsis tau nyob rau lub teb chaws no los Hmoob yeej ignoring ces rau-x siab ua mus lawm xwb... thaum kawg s/d raug teeb meem... ces sib blame tias tim koj tim kuv... PEB HMOOB YEEJ IB TXWM YOG HAIV NEEG TSIS XYUAS KEV MEEJ TAUG... HNOV TWG... POM TWG... CES SIB TW HAUS CUAG LI PAB BUA NOJ QHAUV XWB... Qhov tam sim no tsis make sense kiag yog: KEV SAU NQI TSHOOB NQI KOS NTAWM COV NTXHAIS... kuv hnov thiab pom ntau case lawm... ob tog niam txiv mam zoo siab heev... koj hu kuv ua cua kuv hu koj ua cua... tab sis SOMETIMES nyuam qhuav hais tshoob los txog tsev... ob tug hais lus tsis sib haum... koj cem kuv f*ck... kuv cem koj Sh*t... ces tus ntxhais twb sau nra khiav mus caum nws cov friends lawm...

Peb tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws no... cov ntxhais tsis muaj respect rau Hmoob tej kev cai no lawm... we could have debate on this topic... cov tub thiaj tseem yog cov muaj respect rau hmoob tej kev cai... tseem muab nyiaj mus them tus ntxhais nqi taub hau... TEJ NO THIAJ LI UA RAU TIB NEEJ NTSWV SIAB NTSWV NTSWS SIB TAU LI COV CASES PEB S/D TAU NIAJ HNUB POM LOS LI NO...

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Ntawm koj li kev xav... koj xav tias Hmoob lub neej nyob miskas no s/d yuav tsim nyog hloov mus rau kis twg thiab li cas?

characters are welcome!

Sure... tus txiv cov noob yog cov ua kom tus niam cov qoos xwb... koj sim saib around koj seb... tej nkawd niam txiv twg yog tus niam zoo-x nkauj... tus txiv los zoo-x raug... nkawd cov me nyuam yeej zoo nkauj zoo raug kawg li... ho yog tus txiv phem-x... tab sis tus niam zoo-x nkauj... cov me nyuam yeej tseem zoo nkauj OK... tab sis yog tus txiv zoo-x nraug...ho tus niam phem-x ces cov me nyuam yeej tsis zoo nkauj li...

Kuv xav tias tej kev sib tua no yog burden los ntawm peb Hmoob tej kev coj rau sab kev sib sau los ua neej... kuv tseeg tau tias... everything has to be in logical orders... raws li nram no:
1. Yug los rau lub ntiaj teb no
2. Lub loj hlob... zuj zus...
a. raug teeb meem ntau yam...
b. etc...
3. Laus zuj zus
4. Txoj sia tu

Nej s/d sim seb peb Hmoob ib seem kev coj nyob rau lub teb chaws miskas no seb puas muaj logical orders li hais no? Ntau zaug kuv pom tias tej kev Hmoob ib txwm ua thaum ub... yeej siv tsis tau nyob rau lub teb chaws no los Hmoob yeej ignoring ces rau-x siab ua mus lawm xwb... thaum kawg s/d raug teeb meem... ces sib blame tias tim koj tim kuv... PEB HMOOB YEEJ IB TXWM YOG HAIV NEEG TSIS XYUAS KEV MEEJ TAUG... HNOV TWG... POM TWG... CES SIB TW HAUS CUAG LI PAB BUA NOJ QHAUV XWB... Qhov tam sim no tsis make sense kiag yog: KEV SAU NQI TSHOOB NQI KOS NTAWM COV NTXHAIS... kuv hnov thiab pom ntau case lawm... ob tog niam txiv mam zoo siab heev... koj hu kuv ua cua kuv hu koj ua cua... tab sis SOMETIMES nyuam qhuav hais tshoob los txog tsev... ob tug hais lus tsis sib haum... koj cem kuv f*ck... kuv cem koj Sh*t... ces tus ntxhais twb sau nra khiav mus caum nws cov friends lawm...

Peb tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws no... cov ntxhais tsis muaj respect rau Hmoob tej kev cai no lawm... we could have debate on this topic... cov tub thiaj tseem yog cov muaj respect rau hmoob tej kev cai... tseem muab nyiaj mus them tus ntxhais nqi taub hau... TEJ NO THIAJ LI UA RAU TIB NEEJ NTSWV SIAB NTSWV NTSWS SIB TAU LI COV CASES PEB S/D TAU NIAJ HNUB POM LOS LI NO...

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Blsxiong... kuv tseem tsis tau los txog USA os... planned los rau USA rau lub week no tab sis ho muaj project me ntsis maybe the following week mam li los txog USA...

Hmmm... Zaub mos lod... hmmm... kuv tsis nyiam noj zaub mos... kuv mus lim cua xwb... thiab kuv rov mus xauj tej neev taw qub thaum xwb... lolz...

Cia kuv rov los txog US tso mam li rov tuaj nrog s/d tso dag tso luag dua... thiab kuv mam li load kuv li ib cov duab Hmoob zos thiab dej haiv txwd rau nej tau saib...

Thx... os... rau koj cov lus nug txog kuv...

The Lo’s murder trail is very interesting case for some of us to learn from… is it LOVE that we are looking for or is it just SEX? What is it? And why such hatred could lead to the killing… maybe we blamed others more than us own? Your thoughts….

Bawg... good advice from you... at least I need to know...lolz...

Yog muaj more advices... please throw at this way so I could learn from thiab os...



peter wrote:
[quote]Thaum tseem ua hluas nraug/ ua hluas nkauj nyob.
Xav lawm tias; koj zoo nraug/zoo nkauj heev...
Cia muab deev coob leej ntau tus cia, thiaj li muaj kev xaiv(selection) tus neeg los nrog yus ua lub neej....

Tham hluas nkauj/hluas nraug coob tus. Tus twg los tus zoo zoo, tab sis koj tsuas yuav tau ib tug xwb.

Lub ntuj..muaj 10 hnub tshav, los yuav muaj ib hnub los nag.
Koj tus poj niam/tus txiv, muaj 10 hnub zoo los yuav muaj ib hnub tsiv tsaim...
Thaum nws tsiv tsaim tuaj, cas yuav ua rau koj nco koj 2-3 lub siab ua koj muab laim ntia pov tseg ua luaj..

9 qhov xav, 10 xav los nim xav zoj tias yog kuv yuav tus no, ntshe nws yuav tsis ua li no rau kuv..
puas tu koj siab?

Thaum koj tseem ua hluas nkauj/hluas nraug nyob...
Yog koj lam hlub ib tug, ua ib lub siab yuav tau tus neeg koj zov zov. Koj tsis pom lwm leej lwm tus qhov zoo, ces koj yuav tau koj tus poj niam, nws txawm yuab ua ntuj liab teb ntsuab, los ntshe koj twb tsis pom qab nco leej twg, yuav ua ib siab nyo hau twj ywm rau nws xwb tiag... :